Frequently Asked Questions


  • What exactly is a Stephen Minister?

    One way to put it is that Stephen Ministers are the After People. Stephen Ministers are there:


    . . . after the phone call you hoped you’d never get.


    . . . after the funeral, when everyone has left and the


    emotions you’ve held at bay come crashing in on you.


    . . . after the relationship falls apart and the bottom falls out of your life.


    . . . after the doctor says, “I’m sorry, but there’s nothing more we can do.”


    . . . after the nursing home director shakes your hand and says, “Welcome to


    your new home.”


    . . . after the last child honks the horn, waves, and drives away - and the house


    suddenly seems empty.


    . . . after the gavel comes down, the handcuffs go on, and your loved one is


    led away.


    . . . after the baby arrives, demanding more of you than you ever


    dreamed possible.


    . . . after you find a pink slip with your final paycheck.


    . . . after your family and friends have heard your story one too many times, but you still need to talk it out.

  • Who should serve as a Stephen Minister?

    If you sense that God might be calling you to serve as a Stephen Minister, the first step is to find out more about getting involved.


    Care receivers are individuals in the congregation or community who are going through a crisis or life difficulty. Potential care receivers first meet with a pastor or Stephen Leader, who assesses their needs for care and matches them with a Stephen Minister. The caring relationship lasts for as long as the need persists.


    After being matched with a person experiencing a life crisis, the Stephen Minister meets with that person on a weekly basis to listen, care, encourage, and provide emotional and spiritual support. The caring relationship lasts as long as the need for care exists.